Should Have Put A Ring On It...Genuis!!

My people!!! October 22nd is literally around the corner. You have to tune in for the premiere show. Say it with me...Oc-to-ber 22nd!! LIVE at 9:30 pm!!! Not 9:00 or 9:32. 9:30 PM!! It is not that late. Find a computer with speakers and just click on the radio link. Go to www.elitedcmag.com! I will be setting up an e-mail for all comments or responses you want to leave. I would give out my number, but I don't want people calling me all the time. Sorry, I love the support but I have to draw the line somewhere, lol. Once again, October 22nd at 9:30, www.elitedcmag.com! Got it? Good!

The title of this blog comes from Beyonce's new hit "Single Ladies". (I think that is the name of the song) I have to give B credit. Out of all the songs I heard, I like the message in this one. Not to mention the video...speechless. If only I could get my girl to do those dance moves for me. (Cough, cough :-)) If anyone ever doubted that B isn't thick, they will soon switch their view of her after watching the video. Anyway, I support her message 100%. Put a ring on the one you want. Back in the day, that is was the only way things were really done. Now-a-day there are probably more single mothers than married couples. I mean if she is good enough to have your baby then why can't you marry her?

It's always funny running into an ex. There is always this kind of awkward moment, sometimes followed by mental what-if scenarios. It is cool if both of you are single, but if she/he is married it's kind of a smack in the face. Oh, best believe the fact they are taken will come up in the conversation. I think women love to flaunt, if I may, when it comes to being taken off the market. It's like saying, you couldn't commit to me but I found someone who can and I'm better off than you. It kind of leaves a sour taste in your mouth, unless she/he is a complete nut. Then I would feel sorry for the poor sap who actually proposed.

Why are men afraid and I use that word loosely, to put a ring on the one they want? How much would it bother you to see your past love married to someone after leaving you? I know marriage is a big step, but how long can we keep waiting. I know everyone you meet may not be marriage material, but for that one that makes your heart skip a beat, takes your breathe away, makes you happy in every aspect of life, what is the hold up?

As always, be productive, be persistent, be prudent.


WORD OF THE DAY!!!

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